If you were to conduct a survey, asking people if they felt that they were physically relaxed, I'd imagine that a very high percentage would argue that they were and that would be quite a normal response. Unfortunately however, the truth of it, is that the muscles in our bodies are often tight and inflexible. Why?
When you were a child, say around the age of 5 or 6, did you ever wake up in the morning in pain, complaining of a bad back? Whens the last time you heard a child say "oh, my back ain't what it used to be?". Highly unlikely! Kids do get tight muscles, but that's normally from playing games, etc, for a long period of time. Yes parents, even their muscles get fatigued sometimes, although you wouldn't think it, by the way they can't keep still at times!!
As we get older we learn stress and how to feel stress! It's sad but true. You weren't born stressed. Of course, there are occasions when a baby is born distressed, due to a complicated birth, etc, but ultimately, we learn stress as we grow. Sadly, our bodies suffer, as we hold on to much of our stress throughout our muscles. That's when we get the bad backs, the stiff necks, the tight chest.
Then we have our dysfunctional world of ergonomics. If you work in an office, what's your workstation like? Is the chair at the right height, in correspondence to your screen and desk? Do you spend a lot of time on the laptop? How long a period do you spend in front of your computer? If you are female, which shoulder do you hold your handbag on? How heavy is it? But why am I talking about tight muscles and ergonomics?
Well, the body and mind are so intertwined that what affects the body, affects the mind! So if you're feeling stressed and your muscles are reflecting that, what affect do you think that is having on your mind?...not a great one! I want you to test something. Hunch your shoulders, knit your eyebrows together, breathe shallow from the chest and clench your teeth. How do you feel? Awful I bet. Now loosen your jawline, open and lower your shoulders, breathe from the stomach area, clench your fists and look up. Now how do you feel? Much better, right?
Your mind reflects what your body feels and vice versa. For me, it's important during a coaching session, to have the client relaxed, otherwise the work that they perform might not have the right impact.
If you are a sportsperson, it's vital to be able to relax at the right moments. Granted, some sports require you to have a certain amount tension in your muscles, I mean you wouldn't want to be half asleep running a 100m race, would you? And what about those of you who run hectic lives, juggling family and work responsibilities, you need to be able to relax at any given time too, isn't it?
What would it be like for you to relax in difficult situations? What would it feel like? What would you be saying to yourself? What picture comes to your mind right now?
Well, you'll be glad to know that I have put together a 'Relaxation' mp3 for you ((Apologies, Not available at present)), which will provide you with a technique that will put you in a relaxed state immediately! The mp3 is full of dialogue that will get you feeling relaxed in no time. I use a whole body relaxation technique, so that you can literally feel the your muscles loosen as you listen. You will then experience something that may be quite new for you...what it means to be truly relaxed.
The mp3 takes you through progressive steps to ensure that you have the skill to evoke your relaxed state, just by thought alone. You can use it for immediate relaxation whilst at home or appropriately at your place of work.
Here's the best part.At present the price for the mp3 is £7.97 (click here to see our articles page and listen to the excerpts), which is due to expire at 17:29pm on 7 January 2011. (Apologies, Not available at present)
However, For the next 24 hours I'm offering the mp3 to you FREE! Yes, that's right FREE. For one day only. My offer has to end at 15:45pm 2nd December 2010, guaranteed.
I do have a favour to ask of you before you download the mp3. In exchange I was wondering if you could spare me a minute of your time. That's all I'm asking.
You see, I want to make sure my blogs, email newsletters, my FREE reports and advice, be the best they can be. I want to give you exactly what you want. I want to only give you the information you really want on your sport, health, fitness and personal effectiveness mission. So if you could just visit the link below and give me your moot; one or two sentences on what you want to read, I'll then give you access to the downloadable mp3 immediately afterwards. (Apologies, Not available at present)
Thanks in advance, I really appreciate your assistance.
So get relaxing today...truly relaxed! And if someone should ever say to you " hey, relax!", think twice before you respond...
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